Facebook Post – Tim Cotton Writes

Dang the doom-scrolling; the reality of today is that ingesting nothing but negativity will manifest itself the same way. Every. Single. Time.

The collective end of most conversations finds us still wondering if the particiants agreed with our wonderful insight as we all walk away. Pro-tip: they don’t. And that’s okay, kid. Pleasing others certainly is something to strive for, but it’s not the entire job description.

I dont write on the Interweb in order to win friends and influence people. I do it because words can be more fun than any other medium.

Twenty (give or take a few) words divided by simple commas, periods, quotations, or my weapon of choice—the em-dash—can inject joy into an otherwise video-centric world. Manually rewinding, pausing, and moving forward are more easily done with the eyes and your mind than repeatedly clicking on the back of a mouse like it just stole the cheese.

Re-reading takes no effort, just a slight shift of your eyeballs. That is sweet.

Thanks for the positive notes and messages, and the negative stuff too. The posts over the last couple of days were like perpetual motion machines for commentary from all different camps.

Yup, there were some arguments. Some of them ended up in privately sent messages. I cannot engage in that. I write what I write, I say what I say. You should too. There were some ugly engagements in the comments. I say, police yourselves, and you do it well.

What you find is that when a post is widely shared it brings people to the page that don’t commonly stop by. Some want to fight because they don’t have many other places to vent. I understand. I don’t delete people unless they get mean, and some did.

FYI-I haven’t been called a swine on my own writing page for weeks. So nice.

In the end, we all move on when we realize it’s close to supper and we then thaw something out from the freezer because it’s time to get back to life, back to reality. That is when we center with those we choose to call friends.

Life is short, make it sweet.

Some Old Dominion in case you want to lighten your mood and stop the scroll that keeps making you mad https://youtu.be/CJ9L4PewTuY

I’m piling the pup into the questionable green glider and driving to camp to check on wind-blown trees. Trees never make me sad, even when they have fallen and can’t get up. Ellie will sniff for things that—up to now—have remained unsniffed. That’s all she really needs in her newsfeed. We could learn a lot from a dog.

Thanks for you support for my book #thedetectiveinthedooryard and for the positive wishes for the next one (due in July). It boosts up the mope that writes here.

Be well.

Tim Cotton

TimCottonWrites@gmail.com

Coffee & Chocolate

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This is one of the best books I have read in years. It has tenderness and warm, gentle humor - and several laugh out loud spots. Give yourself a gift and read this. You will better about life.

Amazon Customer October 9, 2020

Amazon

I loved every bit of this book. I’ve been following the Bangor Police page and then Tim Cotton’s page on Facebook for years now. I think of it as a tiny little piece of my day that I can count on to make me feel something – usually something good, comforting in some way, occasionally a wee bit of sadness, but sad in that wistful way that a person appreciates. This man writes the way I often find myself thinking in my own head. He points out all the commonalities that we have as people, rather than the differences. The differences he writes about are the superficial ones, and the ones that make us interesting. I stretched this book out for quite a long time, reading a chapter or two in between other books. It’s a great place to turn when a person wants to occupy their minds with something peaceful that helps us to understand the world and our place in it just a little more.

Unhappy July 1, 2020

I’ve enjoyed Tim Cotton’s stories and ramblings on Facebook (or The Book of Faces, as he calls it) for a while now. And having a whole book of his musings is the reading equivalent of binge watching Netflix (something I’ve only recently learned about during the lockdown). Cotton talks about the little things and he tells it like it is. But it would be a mistake to say he has ‘no filter’ – he most definitely has a filter and it’s a filter of kindness and compassion. I liked Chapter 5 ‘The Cop’ best. It’s more fictional than the rest, and I hope it’s a hint of a novel to come?

Wrenn December 30, 2020

I have read this book 4 times now; the first 2 times I read it slowly, trying not to let it end too soon. I decided to read a few other things after that – Hamlet, Great Expectations, A Time to Kill, A Time for Mercy, Little Women. The entire time I was reading those books I longed to go back and read The Detective in the Dooryard again. When I picked it up for the third time, I felt like I was sitting down with an old friend I hadn’t seen in years, the kind you know so well you can pick right back up where you left off. The Detective in the Dooryard is a collection of stories, some about Tim Cotton’s experiences as a Bangor, Maine police officer and Detective; some are about memories of things that shape us all into who we are today. Tim often references music, mostly from the 60’s, 70’s and 80’s. Just the mention of a song’s title makes me remember growing up and coming of age during those years, and I am immediately taken back to people, places and events in my past – some good, some bad, but always just as clear as if I were there. Tim’s writing is so descriptive you feel as if you are there inside each story as well; some of his writing actually takes my breath away. There is a lot of humor, wry sarcasm, wit, and deft handling of sometimes difficult subjects. This book is the touch of your Mother’s hand on your forehead when you’re sick, your favorite treat as a child; it’s coming home. Can’t wait for the next one

Hannah January 6, 2021

This book is like a warm hug. I honestly don’t want to put it down, but I also don’t want it to end. The struggle is real. It is not a mystery that you think you can figure out and refuse to put it down to prove to yourself you’re smarter than the author, but it feels so good and real you want to read more. Maybe I’m biased because I grew up in Maine and Tim Cotton’s lyric writings immediately put me back in the Maine woods and setting sun as I try to get every bit of light to take in the last bit of beauty from the day. It really is poetic, and funny, and relatable. You don’t have to be a big old sentimental Mainer like me to thoroughly enjoy this book, you just have to be a human living in a chaotic world looking for a happy release. Would I recommend this book; YES, SIR! Will I be giving up my copy any time soon, probably not. I know I’ll pick this book up whenever I need a warm hug, a feeling that I’m home in Maine snuggled up on my gram’s homemade quilt, and a moment of happy calm. Pick this up and enjoy! You’re welcome!

TIM COTTON WRITES

Coffee & Chocolate

Amazon Customer October 9, 2020

Unhappy July 1, 2020

Wrenn December 30, 2020

Hannah January 6, 2021